
Out of boredom on a Sunday afternoon, I came upon a movie that was saved in the communal PC's hard drive at home. It was not something I have heard of, but there was nothing interesting in the said PC, so I went ahead with this one.
It is actually about the ups and downs of the romantic relationship of two ordinary people. During the first parts of the film, it is easy to get all confused and frustrated about how it is all arranged. It is very much like 500 Days Of Summer, where the entire flick is not presented in a chronological order. It jumps from one scene to another, making it quite confusing for those who find too taxing to think (which includes me). However, I'm a sucker for romantic films, and I had the feeling that this one has a good story behind it, so I proceeded to watch the entire film and see what it wants to point out.
Basically, the film tackles the things that most relationships go through. The entire process involves a long journey. At start, the two people develop and realize an attraction between each other. It seems that they share the same interest and have the same views on certain matters. This eventually becomes a basis for the desire to be with each other at all times. In the film, the couple eventually decided to live with each other. This is where the struggles start to show up. The two people start to realize their differences and how hard it is to get along with someone who does not share one's ideas, beliefs and practices. Even the very simple act of making PB&J sandwich becomes a source of arguments and conflicts. As time goes by, these two souls who were so in-love with each other, who thought that they have found their soul's other half, start to drift apart. They did break up.
That was not the end though. Throughout the course of movie, it was shown that after the winter, when they had the hardest point of their relationship, they were still together. After breaking up, it felt as if there was really nothing wrong with each other. It was nobody's fault. With that realization, they were able to talk things out and get back in each others' arms.
Personally, I think the film simply points out the hard part of being in a relationship. It shows how two people can be so different. However, it also points out that despite all the differences, these two people can still be together. All it takes is the desire to be together. If they have that, they can work on making their lives better together than any other way.
Vandy: Peter, everything that happened with us happened for a reason. This is who we are together. We're just gonna stay the same way. It's not gonna be any different.
Peter: Yeah, I know. I understand what you are saying. I understand you. This is what I want. You are the person I want to be with. Do you feel the same way?



